What women need and what men think women need are two different things. A woman- by this term I mean a lady on her grind, a lady that’s about her business, a lady that can get it on her own, by any means necessary with or without a man in her corner won’t need a man for financial reasons. A woman doesn’t need a man to be successful. But what’s success if you’ve no one to share it with? Men are flashy and like to buy women with material things. They like to finesse women, instead of getting to know them. The issue is too many women accept this behavior from men, so men think it’s appropriate. It isn’t, we can woo ourselves. We need a confidante (besides our girls), we need someone who can support us and be there for us mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally, and sexually! We need someone who we can grow and run an empire with. We don’t need heartbreaks and wet pillows. We don’t need broken promises and unfortunate circumstances. We don’t need to be like those infamous #RelationshipGoals videos, trying to look up to and be like a couple who we don’t even know- a couple who may not even have a relationship based off of love. We need something more. We need real men who gives us real love. Mary J. Blige did say it best; “Real love
I’m searchin’ for a real love
Someone to set my heart free
I’m searchin’ for a real love.”
Women need real love and so do men and a little (maybe a lot) of mind blowing sex can only improve the relationship.